25 Jan 2012
Tags: Confidence, Development, Discipline, Goals, Mental Health, Pressure, Self-Esteem, Transitions
Pictures from Pinterest
I turned 39 last Sunday. It was kind of a crazy day. We had spent the weekend at a house in the rural foothills of Eastern Washington surrounded by nearly four feet of soft powdery snow. It was beautiful! When we arrived on Friday, we had to snowmobile in with our bags part of the way because our vehicle couldn’t get through part of the road that hadn’t been plowed. When it was time to leave on Sunday, we had to hike three miles with our kids and cat/dog because our vehicle had to be towed out part of the way because it was stuck on an icy road on a steep hill. If I had known the roads would have been so tricky, I probably wouldn’t have gone…but guess what? I do know what the roads are like and we’re going back this weekend! We’ll just be a little more prepared (with chains) this time.
I know it probably sounds crazy (at least that’s what my mom says), but honestly the almost 72 hours of fun, beauty, adventure, and relaxation we experienced was worth the several hours of hiking and digging that we had to do. I’ve realized that there are probably many things I haven’t done in the past out of fear. More
10 Jan 2012
in Beauty, Body Image Issues, Confidence, Perfection, Self-Esteem
Tags: Beauty, Body Image, Confidence, Progress, Self-Esteem
Photo from Pinterest
When I read If This is Progress Where the Hell Are We Going? — The Girl Revolution, by Tracee Sioux, I felt compelled write about this topic. Tracee is asking the question: what is progress when it comes to body image and self-esteem? I’ve been pondering this question for quite some time now. More
28 Nov 2011
in Confidence, Development, Keeping Up with the Jones’, Mental & Physical Health, Perfection, Personalities and Temperaments, Relationships, Self-Esteem, Snobby Moms
Tags: Being Unique, Confidence, Development, Keeping Up with the Jones', Life, Self-Esteem
Photos from Pinterest.
When people ask, “What do you do”, I feel confused about how to answer that question. Sometimes I want to say that I’m a writer, editor, or an artist of sorts, but then I think just because some of my writing and edited material has been published doesn’t necessarily make me a “professional”, so I feel like I’m kind of stretching the truth if I say that I am a writer.
Hmm…what do I do for a living? I’ll tell you what I do…
I listen to my inner voice, follow my own unique path, pay attention to my surroundings, connect with an eclectic mix of people, and see where that all takes me.
Is that an acceptable answer? More
10 Oct 2011
in Beauty, Body Image Issues, Eating Disorders, Health, Personalities and Temperaments
Tags: Beauty, Body Image, Confidence, Eating Disorders, Health, Self-Esteem, Weight
I’m perplexed by organizations or individuals who put on the façade of empowering ALL women to love themselves and their bodies, but who are in reality only narrowly accepting that which falls into the ideas, messages, and images that work for their way of thinking or their body type. Why is it that some of the people who say they are for promoting positive body image, actually shut down the women who do not have bodies similar to their own? More
27 Sep 2011
in Beauty, Body Image Issues, Confidence, Fashion, Mental & Physical Health, Perfection, Personalities and Temperaments, Self-Esteem
Tags: Advice, Beauty, Body Image, Confidence, Education, Mental & Physical Health, Mental Health, Perfection, Personalities & Temperaments, Self-Esteem, Transitions
I can’t help but wonder what all the fuss is about. Why do we feel we need to look, dress, buy, think, and behave a certain way to be good enough? I’m not saying that I’ve never felt that I needed to be something other than myself to be accepted because, unfortunately–I have felt that way. What I’m questioning is why any of us ever feel that way in the first place? When and how does it start? At some point in our life, we all feel the pressure. More
15 Sep 2011
in Beauty, Best & Worst Parenting Products, Body Image Issues, Confidence, Fashion, Perfection, Style
Tags: Bad Hair Styles, Confidence, Hair, Kids Hair Cuts, Perfection, Perms, Style, Styling Products, Sun In, Women's Hair
This is my Kindergarten picture.
My hair troubles started in Kindergarten when my mom took me and my naturally stick straight hair to get a “Shirley Temple” cut and perm. She meant well, but my hair was a wreck because it wasn’t the type of hair that was meant to be permed. Several sections were tight curls, while others sections were kinky angular kind of curls or stick straight stands that stood out from the curls. Not cute.
When I show friends my Kindergarten picture with my “Shirley Temple” wanna be hairstyle–no one can contain their laughter. Yeah, it’s pretty funny, but I cringe when I think of that picture. My perm had significantly relaxed and my mom had put considerable effort into making me look presentable for that picture. I still have nightmares about my hair being cut off.
I’ve had quite a few hair disasters… More
23 Aug 2011
in Best & Worst Parenting Products, Body Image Issues, Books, DVD’s, Music & Video Games, Confidence, Eating Disorders, Education, Health, Mental & Physical Health, Pressure, Self-Esteem
Tags: Advice, Anxiety, Beauty, Body Image Issues, Books, Children, Confidence, Development, Eating Disorders, Kids Dieting, Maggie Goes on a Diet, Mental & Physical Health, Pressure, Self-Esteem
We cannot ignore the fact that some children are obese and that may lead to self-esteem, body image, confidence, and serious long-term physical health issues. I understand that this is a complex issue that needs to be addressed. But this type of book, with that type of title, isn’t the way to go about making a positive change. This book is irresponsible and sends an unhealthy message. More
22 Aug 2011
in Confidence, Development, Self-Esteem, Stay-at-Home Moms, Support Groups, Teachers, Transitions, Working Moms
Tags: Confidence, Mentors, Self-Esteem, Stay-at-Home Moms, Support Groups, Transitions, Working Moms
I have been a stay-at-home mom for ten years. I think a more realistic term would be on-the-go mom. I have worked my butt off, and I have loved almost every minute of it. As I look to the future, I feel it’s time to dip my toes back into the working world–as in a paying job. Back to work seems a little intimidating and unsettling, but I have been feeling the pull for a while. Sometimes I scold myself for letting so much time pass, but I’ve been busy doing exactly what I wanted to be doing—being an on-the-go mom. This year our youngest will be in school full-time, so it’s time. I want to go back to work as a writer. More
16 Aug 2011
in Beauty, Body Image Issues, Confidence, Controversial Parenting, Development, Mid-life Crisis, Pressure, Self-Esteem
Tags: Beauty, Body Image Issues, Confidence, Controversial Pareneting, Pressure, Self-Esteem
Katie Makkai, a veteran poetry slammer, defining the word “pretty”. This video is a little intense at times and worth watching to the very end when Katie delivers the goods! (Not appropriate for young children.)
I was looking through a magazine last weekend when my nine-year old daughter, Bella, noticed a head shot of a women in her late 60’s. More
15 Aug 2011
in Beauty, Confidence, Mental & Physical Health, Self-Esteem
Tags: Beauty, Confidence, Maya Angelou, Mental & Physical Health, Phenomanal Women, Poetry, Positive role models, Self-Esteem, Strength
I attended a speech Maya Angelou gave over a decade ago. When I think back on that evening, her beautiful words and powerful presence still have the ability to calm me. Dr. Angelou is a celebrated poet, memoirist, novelist, educator, dramatist, producer, actress, historian, filmmaker, civil rights activist, Glamour Magazines 2009 woman of the year, and so much more. When I’m upset, I sometimes read her words and remember that there are women out there who have endured so much, but still–they rise. Maya is truly an inspiration to us all!
I love this poem by Maya Angelou. For me, this poem is not about attracting a man or woman–it’s about being confident in who you are. More