04 Aug 2011
in Adoption, Education, Health, Mental & Physical Health, Support Groups
Tags: Africa, Education, Girlpod, Giving Back, Hope by Twelve, Life, Molly Pitts, Rachel Beckwith, Volunteering, Water Shortage
Rachel’s story has truly touched me to the core of my being. I hope to raise my children to be as kind, thoughtful, compassionate, generous, and giving as Rachel.
When I read the headline “Thousands honor memory of 9-year-old Rachel Beckwith”, my first thought was that I recognize the last name. I clicked on the link to see what the story was about and if it was the same Beckwith family I grew up with. It is the same family.
As I began to read the heartbreaking story about Rachel, who had a goal of raising $300 to bring clean water to African villagers by her 9th birthday, I felt a mix of deep sadness and hope. Rachel died in a car accident shortly after her 9th birthday. I have not been able to let the story go.
Rachel’s story, although unbearably tragic, is also inspiring for many reasons. More
22 Feb 2011
in Adoption, Politics, Prejudice, Relationships, Transitions
Tags: Adoption, Politics, Prejudice, Transitions
Note from Liz: Janell and I realize this is a sensitive subject, and we sincerely hope not to offend anyone. This is her truth. Here is Janell’s story…
When the time came and my husband and I realized that we really wanted another child we knew just what we wanted. A boy! We really had no “reason” to adopt. It certainly would have been quicker, easier, and cheaper to just get pregnant and have a baby. Except that I never, ever, wanted to be pregnant again! And adoption of our second child had always been the plan! Besides, we didn’t want a baby; we wanted a boy! Our daughter was seven at this time and we just couldn’t imagine our kids being eight years apart in age. So we began the long and difficult process of finding a child to adopt. We were not too picky in our criteria: a boy, four to six years old, and healthy! He could have arrived purple with pink polka dots for all we cared, although that might have been a bit much to explain. As it was we ended up with a beautiful six-year-old boy from Ghana, just a year and a half after the search began. (As far as international adoptions go that is a pretty good time frame.) More
17 Jan 2011
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This website is for all you parents out there who want to hear the real ins and outs of being a mom. We will discuss the moments, days, feelings, and experiences that most moms don’t usually share with anyone but their closest friends. Almost every mom I’ve met has said that no one ever told her what it’s really like to be a parent. You hear about how wonderful, fun, and lovey everything is (and that’s true), but people don’t tell you about the craziness, unpredictability, and all-encompassing reality of what it’s like to raise kids. I wish I would’ve known the truth sooner, so that I never would’ve felt like a failure for not being perfect. Thankfully, I don’t feel that way anymore–what is perfect, anyway!?! I am perfectly unperfected and so are you. Let’s help all the mom’s out there feel good about themselves and their children, by being real.
This is a place for EVERYONE to have honest, direct dialogue without judgment. Secrets will be told and almost anything goes. We will cover every topic imaginable–the good, the bad, and the funny. Several of my friends will be on-going contributors, and we hope you will comment often. Let yourself be heard! Dads are welcome too. Please share your stories, send us comments and pictures, and tell the truth. As long as you are speaking your truth, you are welcome here. Please be kind to each other, interact, and ask questions.
No nude pictures or completely deviant comments, please.
Liz Nord is the creator of www.secretsofmoms.com. She is a wife and mother of two daughters ages six and nine. She loves family, running, reading, seeking knowledge, baking, laughing, innovating, traveling, in-depth conversations, sunshine, and outdoor adventures. She earned a B.A. in Communications, and completed graduate editing courses at the University of Washington. Liz has published articles in a number of magazines, newspapers, and on numerous websites. She has been a guest on the Leeza Gibbons talk show, Hollywood Confidential, and serves on the Editing Certificate Advisory Board at the University of Washington. She is also the co-creator of Plus-Size Models Unite. She is passionate about promoting healthy self-esteem, positive body image, and confidence. She believes in cultivating who you are truly meant to be and embracing your unique self.
We are an eclectic, intelligent, fun group of women, who are all here to share our parenting experiences. Introducing the rest of the team: More